What and where is our culture heading......

Right now we in India are struck....struck terribly between modern (read western)and traditional mindsets...even the generation next is unable to understand where they stand....everybody wants a modern girlfriend and the same material is unfit as a wife....moral dilemmas are as common as anything else....this is a disturbing trend as the person you are cheating is none other than you...convience is the new concept these days...for example if u have time you plan to execute each and every traditional ceremony and if u r busy...oh why to follow those in these days....basic flaw lies in lack of reasoning at individual and cultural level....why do you pray...coz you are told to so by those who are told to do so by others and this mass misunderstanding continues....horoscope is the basic essential thing rather love in case of marriages(arranged) how the hell do they forecast your well being..? some unknown science....boy friend has to be tough ,party animal and somebody who gives all his time to her....but husband....caring individual who is responsible,earns a lot and has a greater social status(has to be from the caste yaar...)...where dose this duality arrive from? and whom are you cheating?I wish this to be a temporary phase through which the culture is transforming and i personally think for the current period the shift towards the western culture is for the good of upcoming generations....